tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post678925607011641196..comments2023-10-21T12:26:51.071+01:00Comments on My bizarre world: “Indecent” Proposals…Nik_TheGreekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00986723570093229435noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-41002710232771140642010-07-26T10:11:50.625+01:002010-07-26T10:11:50.625+01:00@Mike You do make a very good point. I wouldn'...@Mike You do make a very good point. I wouldn't object to a LONG vacation but it is not that easily arranged.<br />No, I wouldn't go camping without bathroom facilities (sorry)...Nik_TheGreekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00986723570093229435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-68783719889765723272010-07-26T02:25:48.178+01:002010-07-26T02:25:48.178+01:00Two great ways to know if you can stand to be with...Two great ways to know if you can stand to be with someone long-term. <br /><br />1. Take a LONG vacation together...one that requires serious together time, not just running around seeing sights and keeping busy. Better yet, make it a cross-country drive.<br /><br />3. Go camping (real camping -- with a tent -- and no bathroom facilities -- and bugs -- and rain)Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13434942178702334897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-48704705471997404172010-07-25T10:52:42.108+01:002010-07-25T10:52:42.108+01:00@Pedders Thanks. No, I don't think I'll ch...@Pedders Thanks. No, I don't think I'll change my mind soon. I like how we are now for the time being. I don't want to rush things...<br /><br />@Suf_n_Steve That's a nice diet. Only pill diet...Nik_TheGreekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00986723570093229435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-30796360261001848892010-07-25T10:49:12.905+01:002010-07-25T10:49:12.905+01:00@AJohnP How can you tell when you're ready? Pr...@AJohnP How can you tell when you're ready? Probably I'll just know but I am definitely not ready now.<br /><br />@Cubby I'll let you know after our summer holidays together. Still, it's not exactly the same.<br /><br />@SteveA Yes, I could never move in a studio or something. It would drive me crazy easily. If you want to live him your partner why don't you take the initiative and ask?Nik_TheGreekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00986723570093229435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-80085956596839529792010-07-25T00:14:35.708+01:002010-07-25T00:14:35.708+01:00welcome to the club!
pls take up ur pills and don...welcome to the club!<br /><br />pls take up ur pills and don't eat too much! hehehehe...unlike me i seldom eat but i stressed too much!Suf n Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09817824200063497686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-70453920153218376032010-07-24T15:00:03.239+01:002010-07-24T15:00:03.239+01:00Damn, commented with the wrong google account, lol...Damn, commented with the wrong google account, lol.<br /><br />"Above all, don't rush it. Living together is not all rainbows and butterflies. It's when you actually get to know how the other person really works.<br />Anyway, it's amazing to do so, but it'll melt your brain once in a while, lol =)<br /><br />Whatever you decide to to, do it for the best of you both.<br /><br />Cheers."Peddershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15380030409438728342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-39947486723411151082010-07-24T14:48:33.695+01:002010-07-24T14:48:33.695+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.J.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11281784062752398701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-47275888714537991312010-07-24T01:36:42.986+01:002010-07-24T01:36:42.986+01:00I like lots of personal space and I can't func...I like lots of personal space and I can't function without it! I think you already know that you can't live with someone as what you value is compromised e.g. space; privacy and room to function.<br /><br />In my relationship we are not living together and it works great - but if I were asked now to move in - I'd say yes! But on the premise that there are loads of things I need to do by myself in order to keep my sanity!SteveAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13245382341947191311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-29465202899342985932010-07-23T20:37:00.281+01:002010-07-23T20:37:00.281+01:00"...spend some days together and see if we st..."...spend some days together and see if we stand one another..." This is precisely what I would have suggested. Try staying over at his place for 4-5 days without going home at all. If it goes well, try it again at your place.Cubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12659801291785890663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7340240260464997376.post-35632175040435601592010-07-23T18:26:03.362+01:002010-07-23T18:26:03.362+01:00I think you did the right thing by telling him exa...I think you did the right thing by telling him exactly how you felt. Jim was ready to live together WAY before I was and he never pushed the issue. Instead, we took our time and once I was ready, we moved in together. That ended up being a year and 10 months after we started dating, and even then, it was still a bit of an adjustment. Not because of any major relationship issues, it was mostly because I was wary about moving all our physical 'stuff' together (CDs, etc...).<br />I eventually got over it, and we've been happily co-habitating ever since. :-)<br />Take your time, and always be honest.AjohnPhttp://ajohnp.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com